My Wife Hates Me – What Can I Do?
My Wife Hates Me is a very strong statement for a man to make. The first thing you need to ask yourself is Am I really sure that this is the case? Has she actually said the words I hate you or is this an assumption you have made based on her behavior?
If the answer is Yes, then there are a number of things you must analyze. Firstly, when did this behavior start? Try to pinpoint a moment in time when you first came to this conclusion. If she hasn't actually said it but you are fairly sure that she does, the first step you need to take towards mending the problem is to establish how and when it began.
As well as analyzing her behavior you also need to carefully analyze your own. You need to look at how you may have changed around the time that the problem came to the fore. You need to look at many different areas but here are a few examples.
- Are you still paying her the same attention as you used to?
- Have you been taking her more for granted nowadays?
- Are you away from home more than you used to be, maybe spending more time on a hobby or with friends or work
- Do you still tell her that you love her?
- Do you still bring her little gifts and surprises for no reason?
- Do you still pay her compliments and thank her for things she has done for you such as preparing the dinner or ironing your clothes?
- Are you still intimate with each other, and do you make time to be with each other, like go to the cinema or go out for a meal?
- Have your circumstances changed, are you still able to support the family financially?
You also need to analyze her behavior. What answers do you think she would give to the questions above? My wife hates me is a very sad statement for any man to make,so, you need a plan to turn this thing around and I've got the perfect plan for you.
